The Out-of-Touch Adults' Guide to Kid Culture: International Women's Month

Saturday, March 8, was International Women's Day. March is a whole women's month, even if Google erased it from its calendar. So I'm taking a look at young women—and not in a creepy way. I want to know: what's up with young women? What are they about? What are their dreams? How are they feeling deep in their hearts? So I'm checking out Reddit's woman-centric corners, listening to Doechii and "Call her Daddy," and consulting some "coochie doctors."

The state of young women in two subreddits

To try to get some insight on young women between the ages of 18 and 25 or so, I took a look at some Reddit communities ostensibly made for, by, and about women.

I started at Reddit's TwoXChromosomes. at over 13 million subscribers: This is by far Reddit's largest woman-centric community, and it's bleak. The top posts of the week are dominated by tales of creepy dudes, sexual violence, violence-violence, and more creepy dudes. There's an occasional "here's something funny/cute that happened" to lighten the mood a little, but overall, it's bad out there: "Growing up is realising how much the world hates you" is how redditor gaycat21 puts it.

For a way less depressing and way more interesting women's subreddit, check out NSFW meme subreddit R/LetGirlsHaveFun. At only around 100,000 subs, it's much smaller than TwoX, but it's proof that crudeness and no-censorship vibe of online culture doesn't have to be misogynistic, and it's much funnier that way. According to its creator, Let Girls Have Fun is a place for "girls to post their deranged thoughts, from a girl perspective," because "Girls can also like edgy and crude humor." Posts like this, this, or this seem like open rebellion against society's endless set of rules and expectations for women, expressed in the most explicit way possible.

Alex Cooper's Call Her Daddy is the biggest podcast among young women

Almost everyone who listens to the Call Her Daddy podcast is a young woman. According to research firm Edison Research, 70% of CHD's audience are women, and 70% of them are under 35. A full 93% of its listeners are under 45. The podcast made news when it scored an interview with Vice President Kamala Harris in October, but politics isn't the show's usual subject matter. Host Alex Cooper has been described as "Gen Z's podcast queen" and "the female Howard Stern" by The Hollywood Reporter, tends to focus on sex and relationships when she's not interviewing celebrities like Miley Cyrus and John Mayer. Like Stern, Cooper is frank, open, and raunchy. In the early days of her show, she focused more on sex, but the subject matter has expanded into topics like female empowerment, self-love, and pop culture. Unlike boy's top podcaster Joe Rogan, Call Her Daddy's host doesn't regularly fall victim to believing in crap that isn't true.

AI-generated "coochie doctors" invade TikTok

When someone describes themselves as a "coochie doctor," it's probably safe to ignore any medical advice they offer, especially when they're online and they're not actually human. For the last few months, weirdos and/or algorithms have been using an app called "Caption" to spam TikTok with hundreds of videos featuring lifelike, AI-generated avatars who call themselves "coochie doctors," "booty doctors," "tata surgeons," "booby doctors," and "Korean butt doctors" followed by terrible medical advice. These videos generally start with a variation of the phrase, "13 years a coochie doctor and no one believes me when I say this," followed by some questionable health tips geared toward women like "rubbing fig seeds on your breasts will make them go from saggy to perky" and "sea moss is a great way to cleanse your gut."

It's worth noting that these tips are about neither coochies nor butts, so these medical professionals are working outside their area of expertise. These videos generally end with exhorting viewers to search out a specific "wellness" product on Amazon. It's like all these medical professionals are only offering advice to get money out of the gullible!

“Dating a GM,” and the mystery of what “GM” means

A few weeks ago, TikToker @myak.tt posted the video you see above, a short, random clip with the caption "Dating a GM." It's been viewed over 11 million times since then, and sparked an online debate over what a GM is.

My first thought is "game master," the more inclusive form of "dungeon master," but I'm a damn nerd, and that's almost definitely not what Myak.tt meant. Others have suggested "gang member," "gun man," or "grand master." It's frustrating because the video gives no information, and as of yet, the young woman who posted the video has offered no explanation.

The video has inspired "99% accurate" reenactments like this one:

and this one:

But these give no indication of what a GM is either. Maybe as big a mystery is: Why did this video get popular? Why did the TikTok algorithm choose to share this over the millions of other short, meaningless clips posted all day on the site? I have no answers.

(For a glossary of slang words I'm pretty sure I do know the definition of, check out 'Mewing,' 'Sigma,' and Other Gen Z and Gen Alpha Slang You Might Need Help Decoding')

Viral video of the week: Doechii's  “Anxiety”

Rapper/singer/songwriter Doechii, born Jaylah Ji'mya Hickmon, has been blowing up over the past couple months. Aided by a legion of fans using her song "Denial Is a River" on their TikTok videos and a stand-out performance at the Grammy Awards, Doechii has become so popular that her older songs are being dug out of mothballs and getting huge. This week's viral video, Anxiety (Visualizer), was posted on Doechii's YouTube with no fanfare, and almost three million people watched it in its first two days online alone. The original video for the song was posted back in 2020, and features COVID-era Doechii rapping in her bedroom over Gotye’s “Somebody That I Used to Know." But part of Doechii's "Anxiety" was also sampled on a track from rapper Sleepy Hallow, for his song called "Anxiety." You know what: Here's Doechii explaining the deep lore around this song:

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